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Q: I
am confused about the difference between the Lifetrack theory and
the method of tracking. What is the difference?
A: The contribution of Lifetrack is first to define psychological
spheres that contribute to well-being and distress and second to
develop a means to help patients measure, quantify, track, and improve
the subjective experience of health over time. They are interrelated,
but separate. You can learn about the insights gained from the model
over the years and try to apply them to your life intuitively. You
can also use the tracking method as a tool to make health part of
your daily lifestyle. The tracking does not provide the totality
of the experience, but is a tool to trigger insights and move beyond
a previous best level of experience. The tool helps you to ask relevant
questions of yourself regarding your capacity and willingness to
build your health on a daily basis.
Q: How
can I put numbers on how sexually excited I am or on how much I
accept my spouse without wanting to change her?
A: Patients in Lifetrack therapy do this all the time on
a 10-point scale, where 0 is the minimum and 10 is the initial maximum.
Having people artificially assign a number to their thoughts, feelings,
and actions reinforces the idea that the subjective is controllable.
That a person depends on his or her spouse or significant other
at only a 5 on a 10-point scale means that the individual could
learn to do better.
In Lifetrack sessions, an individual is actively coached on how
to improve in each of the parameters. Although you might presently
depend on your significant other at a level of 3, how might you
strive to make your 3 a 4? How about a 5? Because improvement is
the objective and not the absolute value, the self-rating exercise
is not simply an act of passive accounting. Rather, it is an active
process in which an individual must reflect on how he or she can
think, feel, and act so as to improve daily scores in each of the
positive parameters that help to contribute to positive health.
When rating oneself, the person is encouraged to ask the question,
"How can I think, feel, and act to make this score go even
higher?" This concentrated effort accounts for the rapid rate
of growth in a relatively short period of time by those who use
the approach.
Q: I am a physicist and see some similarities between
the study of the mind and physics. What I also see is that your
method of tracking is influencing the experience of health itself.
Can you comment?
A: The inner state of mind affects what it is one sees and
experiences. To put it in terms of physics, the observed object
is not separate from the observer. When the mind focuses on one
thing, it does so by selectively ignoring another. When the mind
understands something, it has adopted one perspective exclusive
of others. As you have hinted with your comment, depending on what
we decide to observe and measure, we may be creating what we look
for and find. Hence, if individuals observe and precisely measure
diseases and disorders, they may create them where they might not
have otherwise existed. Conversely, if individuals choose to observe
and measure positive mental health or well-being, they may be able
to create these where it may not have otherwise existed.
Naturally, part of being happy is being conscious of it. In this
sense, it is clear that the observer may well influence the experience
of life by the intention or act of assessing it according to the
Lifetrack model. This is intentional. Daily self-rating attempts
to change not only the objectively measurable life experiences but
the "unconscious measuring rod" or the subjective perception
of experience. The scale should serve to help individuals discern
that they are getting much happier, rather than believing that their
level of happiness is "constant." Taking such a psychological
leap is more than just symbolic. It empowers you through incremental
thinking; In short, the observer may be "creating" what
he or she observes simply by choosing to observe it.
Q: I
enjoy the simple self-rating exercise and find that anyone who can
count to 10 can do it. However, I can't fully capture the richness
or complexity of my mind in words, let alone digits! So why bother?
A: I agree with you. The subjective experience of happiness,
well-being, depression, and the like cannot be fully described in
words or digits. Health can only be experienced by each individual.
This raises an inevitable question: If the "reality" of
psychological phenomena can only be experienced and not fully described,
how can we track it?
The physicist Finkelstein wrote similarly about how "experience"
in the exact science of physics cannot be fully communicated to
others. Einstein, too, gave us an analogy regarding a physicist
ever wanting to capture reality, but never being able to see under
a watch's face and discover just what it is that makes it tick.
Finkelstein argued that despite the fact that one cannot fully communicate
experience to others, if we can show others how to make the experience
happen and how to measure it, then we can help others to experience
it. This is precisely what has been done in the Lifetrack self-rating
program. Use it as a tool for building health, and do not confuse
the tool with the experience of health itself.
Q: Why
do you allow your patients to rate their health, rather than administering
a personality test or having a panel of doctors do it? I question
the validity of patients' self-rating. They are not objective in
their assessment.
A: In medicine, the doctor decides if the patient is ill
or well. It is not left up to the patient's subjective opinion.
If a patient is tested and found to have AIDS, that patient is sick
even if in the early stages of the disease he or she is not suffering
from any symptoms. The patient's feeling healthy does not discard
the objective reality of the presence of a potentially fatal disease.
In physical medicine, an objective approach is far more reliable
than a patient's subjective perception of his or her state of health.
What holds true for the body, however, may not necessarily hold
true for the mind. If someone is miserable, it does not really matter
that a whole panel of psychiatrists "objectively" decides
according to some statistical norm (normality defined as a statistical
average) that the patient has an ideal or well-adjusted life. If
in one's mind life is hell, he or she will continue to feel miserable
unless his or her perception of it changes. The reverse is equally
true. If someone is dying with a terminal illness but feels at peace,
then it doesn't matter that a panel of doctors "objectively"
decides this fellow is really miserable but doesn't know it. Whatever
the "objective" panel concludes will make little difference
to a happy individual.
Naturally, there are limits to using subjective experience as a
yardstick to well-being. A positive mental health approach does
not rely solely on an individual's internal perception of well-being.
In therapy, outside parties-the therapist and the individual's partner
(if there is one)-are constantly following a patient's subjective
response to events. When the patient's perceptions of events become
distorted as in an acute psychotic condition, his or her own understanding
of well-being becomes meaningless. It is at these times that subjective
rating does not make sense. Individuals who have difficulty in introspection
may also do less well in Lifetrack therapy.
Q: Is
happiness or distress measured in the same way by everyone?
A: Experiences of psychological distress or well-being (such
as "anxiety," peace," "depression," or
"happiness") are essentially subjective and can only be
observed and reported by the person who is experiencing them. What
makes one person happy might make another miserable and vice-versa.
Furthermore, happiness to one person may not be exactly the same
thing as happiness to another. It may even be different for the
same person at a different time. Nevertheless, because the experience
of well-being or distress is a subjective internal phenomena, the
best expert to measure it is still oneself.
Q: I
am an up-and-down type of person. The mood you catch me in when
I start to rate myself makes me doubt the validity of my self-rating.
Should I rate myself anyway? Who am I trying to fool?
A: Psychological experience occurs in spikes of thoughts,
feelings, and actions. As you have experienced yourself, happiness
and depression are not steady states but can change from one moment
to the next. For this reason, the Lifetrack total adjustment sheet
(each self-rating exercise) is really a snapshot of moments. Even
with a simple 10-point scale, assessments may be different if you
perform the exercise only a few minutes later (depending on what
happened in the meantime) or what you might have happened to think
about when you were self-rating yourself.
Despite this fundamentally subjective and changeable nature of self-assessment,
in the experience of Lifetrack therapy, repetitive self-rating according
to the same fixed model yields highly valuable information. Although
memory is short, one can reliably observe if one is happier or more
depressed than the day before.
To use an analogy, you can imagine that each of your individual
self-ratings is much like a droplet in your psychological experience.
These droplets, when viewed individually or in isolation, may not
tell us much. They are really a collection of "snapshots"
that are arbitrarily pulled together. Nevertheless, for lack of
a better way to capture the dynamically changing states of the mind,
this may be a good beginning. Most important, my patients have discovered
that when you use the same model consistently over time, the droplets
accumulate, creating patterns that take the shape of a fountain.
Although we can individually see the droplets and patients can attempt
to describe their experience at one given point in time, it is only
when we see the fountain that we capture personality. In this sense,
you can think of your overall psychological state as a fountain,
which keeps a certain shape, but consists of constantly changing
and discontinuous droplets.
Q: You
say the scale is from 0 to 10, but then later you correct yourself
and say you can go beyond 10. Why doesn't one's best stay constant
at a 10?
A: In modern physics, the speed of light in a vacuum is known
to be constant at approximately 186,282 miles per second, regardless
of the direction and speed of movement of the observer measuring
it. The reason for this is that the tool used to measure the speed
of light changes its length depending on the observer's relative
speed of motion. When the observer is in motion a high rate of speed,
the tool shrinks according to the observer's speed, thereby explaining
the reading on the scale as always exactly the same: 186,283 miles
per second. In a similar way, the tool used to measure one's subjective
psychological experience seems to change its length in such a way
that the reading is always the same for most individuals. "One's
best" is always one's highest limit. The term, much like the
speed of light, is thought of as a constant, the highest attainable
limit at any given point in time.
When one translates the term best into a number on a 0- to 10-point
scale, a problem arises. A brilliant scientist who became my patient
pointed out the predicament to me many years ago. As the patient
exceeded in certain elements his previous best adjustment, he consistently
rated himself at a 10 (the maximum score). Insisting that his 10
today was much higher than the 10 of last week, he felt that his
scores were no longer representative of his true experience.
It was at this time that I realized that internal psychological
adjustment has no limits. The scale would have to be open-ended
to reflect that reality. The 0- to 10-scale expands as one's experience
surpasses a previous best. When an individual exceeded a past optimal
experience, the measuring tool grows to enable the measurement of
higher levels of adjustment that were previously thought unimaginable
(the patient could rate an 11, 15, and so on). Past maximums could
in this way be challenged and replaced by a new maximum.
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